tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-126392802012-01-01T14:02:28.760-08:00This is a journal created by a woman for women. However, if you are a man in tune with your feminine side (or trying to get there), feel free to read on. It's mainly the stuff we talk about but that noone ever wrote down. It's all the stuff in all those self help books that we read, all the stuff that should be said but aren't. This is just a venting spiel, about the idiosyncrasies of dating and how to make it better.Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.comBlogger5401100tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-36505800342833418342009-11-13T17:49:00.000-08:002009-11-13T17:49:02.898-08:00

If I would prefer to take relationship advice from anyone in the world, it would definitely be the first lady Michelle Obama. Here’s her advice to young women on how to find the perfect man: Cute’s good. But cute only lasts for so long, and then it’s, Who are you as a person? That’s the advice I would give to women: Don’t look at the bankbook or the title. Look at the heart. Look at the soul.

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com40tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-69512430965004572162009-09-04T00:39:00.000-07:002009-09-04T01:17:22.801-07:00

"Screw Cupid: the Sassy girl's guide to picking up hot guys" is a dating book.Publisher's Info:Screw Cupid: A Sassy Girl's Guide to Picking Up Hot Guys by Samantha ScholfieldPublisher: The Experiment, September 2009Paperback, 240 pageswebsite: http://screwcupidthebook.com/index.htmlScrew Cupid is a dating manual for every woman ready to take her dating life into her own hands. Samantha Scholfield

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-25402875541706376602009-08-17T19:03:00.000-07:002009-08-17T19:13:28.615-07:00

Is it a necessary to play games to get what you want in life and love, or is it just something that were programmed to do, and what happens when the games end? And what the f*ck exactly is game?The Game: When you act a certain way while dating or in a relationship but you aren't being true to your real motivations or emotions. Example, you wait 3 days to call the guy back even though you want to

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-70517096334023569272009-08-14T17:09:00.000-07:002009-08-14T17:10:14.701-07:00

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-4106577905019282952009-08-10T22:41:00.000-07:002009-08-10T22:56:50.163-07:00

I had an interesting conversation with a friend a few evenings ago. The observation was that adults get so used to relationships not working out that when they do find a relationship that is good, one might 'self-sabotage' because you can't deal with not breaking up or having drama.Personally, I used to feel that I had a relationship shelf life, which was around the 6 month mark. I never had a

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-88048274350150592242009-07-24T00:07:00.000-07:002009-07-24T00:09:54.574-07:00

For those of you that are into boots, the wonderful creators of WHOOGA have given my readers $30 off any purchase at http://whooga.com. Just type Vixentales into the code box in the cart.Whooga's are kinda like Uggs..you might not need em now, but when the cold arrives, you will sorely wish you got them.Enjoy!

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-2791194598495080402009-07-17T04:29:00.001-07:002009-07-17T04:34:50.231-07:00

One of my absolutely fav blogettes recently wrote a post that hit home for me. Here is a teaser...the first few paragraphs...but you seriously should go to her page and read the whole thing, not only is it eloquent, argumentative, passionate and brilliant; it's beautifully articulated (she should be a lawyer!)A while back, I was involved in an "internet discussion", regarding female sexuality,

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-53990547306269723162009-07-08T16:35:00.001-07:002009-07-08T16:35:51.489-07:00

Pantene is looking for real women (that's us!) for their 2010 ad campaign. Apparently they did a casting call in three cities last year, but it was too limiting for start of a new decade! Is your hair so beautiful that you want to show it off to the world? Here's the skinny:Women will have the opportunity to upload videos July 1 through July 31, 2009 by visiting www.relaxedandnatural.com. All

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-52318856395871600322009-06-24T17:05:00.000-07:002009-06-24T17:14:45.696-07:00

I am writing because I have reached a point of absolute disappointment with men. I just turned 24. I have loved once before and had my heart shitted on. He was my first everything. I get hit on all the time, flirted with, followed but the irony is I feel so alone because none of the men that hit on me or the ones I meet ever seem to get very far. It's now 3 years post break up and no still no

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-77385286282571469912009-05-03T01:26:00.000-07:002009-05-03T01:26:00.397-07:00

My blog is 4 years old today. Wow.We've been through alot together, a bajillion dates, 3 heartbreaks, 2 blogging hiatuses, 2 articles in ESSENCE magazine, 1 proposal and hopefully come soon 1 wedding..lol!I wrote 3 posts on my first blogging night, and now I have 5 blogs and several very cool friends from all places and all walks of life. It's amazing how many of you have reached out and opened

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-31338033587099437792009-04-17T08:36:00.000-07:002009-04-17T08:52:01.129-07:00

Okay this is the abbreviated version of yesterday's emotional saga. If you want to read it in it's entirety, just check out the previous post!Question: I'm the rebound girl hopelessly in love with a guy that is back with his ex-girlfriend. We tried to be friends but it's hurting me more. I'm still in love with him and want him to come back to me. I don't know what to do...Wow! That is a lot of

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-48306871684785462892009-04-16T08:41:00.000-07:002009-04-17T08:43:10.329-07:00

I'm a freshman in college and I have never had a boyfriend and I am still a virgin. I've been "together" with guys before, but my relationships never last more then three months. I've recently realized that I am always the rebound or the girl on the side. But anyway your advice I will truly take to heart and I would extremely appreciate it.I'll make this short, his girlfriend of 3 years broke up

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-43232224705935544362009-04-05T01:20:00.000-07:002009-04-05T01:22:10.029-07:00

I've had all kinds of episodes with meeting families or introducing a guy I was dating to my family. Here are some tips that will help steer you in the right direction.Don't bring him to a funeral...or wedding without meeting your family first. If it's a funeral, everyone will be sad and mournful, and it's not a conducive place for a meet. At a wedding, everyone will attach a greater significance

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-43917954372206055982009-04-04T00:18:00.000-07:002009-04-05T01:20:46.613-07:00

Reflecting back on past experiences and relationships has made me really think about things that went right and wrong. I've been in a few relationships even a fairly long term one, but I have never introduced any of the guys I dated to my parents. I genuinely cared for the guys but I never knew how to go about doing that. I always felt like the entire experience would be really awkward and

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-15378256798251143792009-03-26T15:24:00.000-07:002009-03-27T08:46:10.781-07:00

Here is a question that has been answered here, here and here, but I'll do it again just because darling girl sounds so utterly confused and new to this 'men not calling' phenomena.I am seeing this guy who is really confusing me. We went out few times and it was great. I used to call him at least once at the beginning of the relationship but not often...but he used to answer and reply to my texts

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-47323566423879753722009-03-17T14:25:00.000-07:002009-03-17T14:33:10.433-07:00

Okay, so I'm reading this refreshing new book by Simon Oaks titled "Will Marry for Food, Sex & Laundry." I just had to share this little excerpt with everyone because so many women send me questions on how to know if the guy is interested in you. I haven't finished reading, but I will be doing a 'proper' review in the future.He Likes Me -- Doesn't He?By Simon Oaks,Author of Will Marry for Food,

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-43917677227826956032009-03-10T13:16:00.000-07:002009-03-10T13:33:13.725-07:00

Is it possible to adjust to a small penis when your preference is a large one? Call me shallow, but I'm having trouble adjusting. Please enlighten me. Thanks in advance!!Whoa...your question is one I haven't encountered before. In my experience, my penis sizes went up on the scale...not down! I hope the penis you are talking about is in the 4.5-6 inches range, with a decent circumference,

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-20243819788067879062009-03-07T01:54:00.000-08:002009-03-07T09:40:29.620-08:00

I got this question from one my fav readers the other day...I've been having a really hard time and could use some advice or support. 7 months ago I randomly met an amazing guy and started dating off the bat. He is an incredibly smart dedicated individual. In terms of relationships his views were that a relationship should consist of two people working together to help each other achieve there

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-89252217238333814102009-02-26T04:21:00.000-08:002009-03-07T09:42:41.036-08:00

I had this question asked to me at a party recently, and my viewpoints totally started a firestorm of controversy. Personally I have no problem with Cohabitation, it's worked out great for me, and if I could do it all over again with Norio, I definitely would (but I would pick the apartment next time;).Everyone else in the group was vehemently against it. The population was a group of

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-25171762164227862242009-02-04T14:47:00.000-08:002009-02-04T15:01:06.231-08:00

Vixen please shed some light on my hopeless situation. I am a 20 year old sistah in college whom is beautiful and independent. But for some strange reason i attract men whom are already in relationships. It's like i have the phrase "Play me" written on my forehead. Every time I think I've found the right man. He either has a girlfriend on the side or is totally immature. Why me??? My friends told

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-87915999755748381332009-01-28T11:52:00.000-08:002009-01-28T12:12:32.600-08:00

Help I'm 19 years old and I am dating a 20 year old man with a psycho baby mama. I want to trust him . But its kind of hard when she calls me private every other day. Telling me she's still having sex with him. On his part he told me not to worry. But why do I feel like I'm being played. He says the only reason they broke up was due to her lack of trust in him. Vixen what do I do...I feel like

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-14858971368850478222009-01-26T09:44:00.000-08:002009-01-26T17:43:14.407-08:00

Wow....just wow! This guy has way too much going on! I don't think he intentionally meant to screw you over, it sounds that when your relationship with him started, he was going through a seperation or rocky period with his wife. He was looking for his second fiddle, a woman to go to when things got hot at home and he found you. You fulfilled for him every desire that his wife did not, you were

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-45484735420570073782009-01-18T18:11:00.000-08:002009-01-18T18:14:05.177-08:00

Hey Ladies,For some reason, there seems to be a misconception that the last story is my own. This was a question that I got from one of my readers!Oh hell no it couldn't be my story. I'm way to crazy to put up with this....I would be hiding in someone's bushes ready to spill blood.So....I still think your advice applies, but it's not my story:) Everyone does have a story though, and I'm sure if I

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-35805293167139342022009-01-17T09:37:00.000-08:002009-01-18T18:14:53.946-08:00

This is a question I got from one of my readers. Your thoughts are welcome. Last Sunday I found out some information that tore my world apart. (or at least ruffled my feathers- a lot) Lately, my boyfriend had been pulling "disappearing acts" on me and I was fed up. Over the holidays he disappeared for two weeks straight, and on the weekends he disappears" also. I'm very much a "let me know whats

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-47429847253671660892009-01-05T10:08:00.000-08:002009-01-05T10:08:02.112-08:00

Dear Vixen, I could use a little workplace advice. I am currently one of 8 counselors working in a university admissions office. Out of the 8 of us, me and two others are the only returning staff members (the other 5 are brand new). Out of the three of us that are returning I am the only "regular" counselor....the others are senior counselor and transfer counselor respectively. Hence, they do not

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-19317285475158649052009-01-04T09:45:00.001-08:002009-01-04T10:06:25.421-08:00

Hello darlings,So now that we've officially stepped into 2009, I'm going to try to do better on this blogging thing. First things first...I'm going to give you a spiel about my goals for this year. Last year when I did this on Meander, I ended up attaining all of my goals. The only thing that I didn't do was learn Spanish---everything else was reached.I bought a car, traveled abroad, started

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-7193026735312973292009-01-01T01:27:00.000-08:002009-01-04T09:41:18.671-08:00

Okay, we're almost done with our 4 part interview series with Ian Coburn, the funny and ever insightful author of God is a Woman, Lunch is Not a Date and frequent column writer on Double Viking and Bachelor Guy. If you get a moment, read his book...it truly lets you see the other side of this dating thing...~the side that most women/men think they know but have no idea about!If you're just

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-6162339661527500472008-12-31T01:09:00.000-08:002009-01-04T09:42:31.710-08:00

As you can see, I've been really getting into this interview/questioning process. Having a good person to quiz has helped out immensely. We're back with Ian Coburn, the dynamic author of God is a Woman.Read Part one, and Part two here. My questions/responses are in bold.13. Have you ever had a threesome? Would you ever have another one? What's the big deal with men and threesomes? I’ve had a

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-57893127737399059152008-12-30T00:50:00.000-08:002008-12-30T00:50:00.188-08:00

Okay, so click here for part one.Picking up right where we left off Ian, why do guys always say they call and don't? Why not just be upfront and honest and say, "hey, I really don't feel a connection, but it was good to meet you?"Guys get your number and don’t call mostly for one reason: they don’t think they’re going to be successful. Getting your digits is a victory in itself, so they figure

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-51414860972893732352008-12-29T00:47:00.000-08:002008-12-30T07:59:30.086-08:00

Okay everyone, you know I couldn't let Ian go without grilling him some hard questions, especially after the hot seat he gave me last week. For those of you just tuning in, Ian Coburn is the witty comedian/blogger/author who wrote God is a Woman and blogs on Lunch Is Not a Date as well as as several weekly columns both online and in print. Seriously...read that book, catchy title aside, it's

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-71903363025305453742008-12-23T17:40:00.000-08:002008-12-23T17:40:00.763-08:00

Here is the last section of my interview with Ian Coburn;this was one of the most candid and favorite interviews I've ever done. Thanks Ian!So after Xmas, I will be posting my half of the interview, the questions I've asked Mr. Coburn that made me describe in such glowing adjectives. Stay tuned.

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-47167022346090937922008-12-21T16:03:00.001-08:002008-12-21T16:03:47.531-08:00

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-28108238355493067572008-12-20T05:29:00.000-08:002008-12-20T05:29:00.815-08:00

Okay, here's a quiz I got from a friend. I realized that I'm a very weird, picky and unpredictable person. Leave a comment with all the weird stuff you find in this survey. I'm counting 8 but you might find some more...A- Available: Nope. Sorry...I'm taken.- Age: 28 and loving it.- Annoyance: People that do less than the speed limit in the fast lane. Move over you slowpoke! Get out of my way!-

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-47535259040800372052008-12-18T04:48:00.000-08:002008-12-19T04:50:11.966-08:00

Hello darlings,Part Two of the interview with Ian Coburn is here.

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-29927662605800174392008-12-17T04:50:00.000-08:002008-12-19T05:11:36.074-08:00

Okay, back from the self imposed silence.As regular readers know, I've been in a rut creatively the last year or so. The blog, which was started as a personal journal of advice to my kid sister, had grown into something more, something that I didn't know what to do with. I like making little waves...big waves freak me out. I'm sure if any therapist analyzed this they would say it has something to

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-64950784045079847622008-12-11T17:09:00.000-08:002008-12-11T05:48:26.413-08:00

So over the last 2 months, various search & rescue parties have been sent to my neck of the woods to find me and bring me back out into the blogosphere. They sent emails, calls and texts, but none where able to bring me back from the doldrums of a silent blog.I can't say that I"m back for reals yet, because I still don't know what I want to write about. This blog has taken a dramatic turn,

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-85891110395235801352008-12-09T02:46:00.000-08:002008-12-11T05:47:44.615-08:00

This is the word edition. I know I'm late...but I've been on vacation baby!1. What is your language pet peeve. (example 'hot water heater', why would you heat hot water): My language pet peeve is when ignorant Americans think people that are bilingual should speak English perfectly when they (the ignoramus') can't even speak proper English.2. What is your favorite word? Fuck! Both dirty and clean

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-62746264154589157852008-10-25T03:11:00.000-07:002008-10-25T03:16:48.915-07:00

Got this from a friend, and I just simply had to break the silence to share. Amen to this!If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away...If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to beSlower is better.Never live

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com13tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-4420934225598919762008-09-25T02:41:00.001-07:002008-09-25T02:41:37.442-07:00

I'm boring. I know.

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-44040208876312713262008-08-31T03:25:00.000-07:002008-08-31T03:32:32.856-07:00

Okay so after getting bogged down with work, life and school, I'm resurfacing for another TMI Tuesday on Sunday.You find a fairy. With a wave of their wand they can change anything for you.What is the one thing you would change about your body? I want a ripped stomach. Besides that I'm pretty much fabulous.What is the one personality trait you would change? My inability to be assertive when I

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-27185016679287694482008-08-20T10:13:00.000-07:002008-08-20T22:41:04.075-07:00

Okay, so Eb the Celeb definitely put me in the hot seat on this one. She takes inquisitive to a whole new level...guess I asked for it though! What is there to do in Portland? Nothing. Unless you are the hippie, vegetarian, bar hopper, beer guzzler, or athletic I wanna jog, cycle, ski and climb mountains type. They have some good eats, lots of trendy shops downtown and a pretty decent art and

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-82829058669354945642008-08-19T03:00:00.000-07:002008-08-19T03:00:01.482-07:00

1. LUST: Besides your current Significant Other who do you lust for or have you lusted for? Hmm, should I really put that on here? I plead the fifth due to self incrimination2. GLUTTONY: What food brings out your inner glutton? Rice and fried fish. Yummm!3. GREED: What are you greedy for? Money. That's an easy one.4. SLOTH: What is your plan for an ideal day of sloth? Watching TV all day long. No

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-60595378514720330942008-08-16T02:10:00.001-07:002008-08-16T02:11:19.736-07:00

Hey everyone!I have 10 days off and nothing to do, so please send me all your interesting questions. What's on your mind? What do you want to share? What are you going through? Let's talk!Vixen.

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-14895884175485565742008-08-13T04:15:00.000-07:002008-08-13T04:15:00.659-07:00

One of the greatest divides between the sexes is the fact that us girls love to chit chat on the phone for hours and hours, however the men start tuning us out after 20 minutes unless we are talking about sex. This isn't a bad thing, just a disimilarity in the way that we communicate.A friend of a friend spent Saturday night waiting by the phone for the new guy that she hasn't even had a first

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-62690680825012501502008-08-11T03:25:00.000-07:002008-08-11T03:25:00.723-07:00

I am a loyal reader of your blog and I had a question. I am a lesbian who keeps running into the wrong women. I am a "femme" if you will, and I normally attract "studs". I don't know if you have an insight into the gay community or anything but femme means "girly" and stud means "manly". Just because I am feminine doesn't mean that I should or even need to be with someone who is masculine. In

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-88101037959801870832008-08-09T03:15:00.000-07:002008-08-09T03:15:01.186-07:00

I'm at the point where I've put in time, years, etc... to my career. Besidesmyself, there is only one other counselor in the office that has been around a while and is the senior counselor.The problem I have is that the newest member of our team (hired from another institution) seems to be almost "too aggressive". From day one this female has been getting into people's business, asking an extreme

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-78607518506720566082008-08-05T02:56:00.000-07:002008-08-08T03:00:24.505-07:00

1. What were you known as in HS (Jock, Princess, Geek): Ummm, the nerd. I was the yearbook editor and drama club president, so yeah, I was that nerdy chick. No glasses though. My sister was Ms. Popularity and my other sis was the Princess. LMAO.2. What were you really? Really, I was a vixen just waiting to grow up.3. If you could go back and tell your 16 year old self one thing, what would it be?

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-27078670919517109752008-07-28T22:51:00.000-07:002008-07-28T22:59:47.968-07:00

Wassup y'all! This is your favorite traveller! I officially have international stamps in my passport...WOOHOO! There was a story getting into the country of my vacation...I felt like I was getting seriously interrogated for no reason at all. I was flustered at the inquistion, especially since the few people in line before me got in easy as pie with absolutely no questions. In fact, I was kinda

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-11173738721742117832008-07-08T05:25:00.000-07:002008-07-08T05:25:00.910-07:00

1. Do you believe in marriage? Yes I do. Just not in the institution of marriage. Any word with institution makes me think of being brainwashed.2. What is marriage to you? Marriage is the solid commitment of two people towards a shared life, love and goals. And yes, you can be married without having a wedding.3. If you are married, why did you do it? If you are not, why have you not married? I'm

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-30822002895748021142008-07-05T02:39:00.000-07:002008-07-05T05:24:54.916-07:00

If your girlfriend wants or gets an abortion and she confides this to you, should you tell her baby daddy?I've heard of men that get so upset when they find out that their girlfriend is expecting. Some men turn to her and curse, make a big scene and yell that she is ruining his life. Some guys panic instantly, their hearts start racing and palms sweating yet still manage to croak, "Anything you

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-67666200675358258622008-07-01T04:18:00.000-07:002008-07-05T05:42:55.801-07:00

1. How many cell phones have you had? Four. I generally keep them 2 years, the length of my contract.How long have you had your current cell phone number? Since October last year. Too many stalkers on the last one;)2. Where was the last place you had sex? Ummm, do you really want to know that? Soundproof recording studio room, black velvet walls and black plush carpet. I was blessing the mic and

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-41326374776342889452008-06-25T00:49:00.000-07:002008-08-16T02:09:36.944-07:00

I'm all about the Sisterhood, but not everyone in the Sisterhood is a true member and not every woman should be your friend. I got a question from a reader the other day that just verified that belief.I've just cut my 'girlfriends' out of my life. Part of me misses the good times I had with "the girls" but I just can't see being involved anymore with women who have this many issues...there has to

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-58059659442009383392008-06-24T01:09:00.000-07:002008-06-25T01:14:25.476-07:00

1. Do you believe anyone truly likes their job? I do, so I think other people must too. In fact, I love my job. It's satisfying going home at the end of the day knowing that you've helped someone to make their life and illness a bit better. 2. Do you 1) live to work or 2) work to live 3) not see a difference? Ugh, I'd rather just work to play. Living to work to a workaholics dream and working to

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-79453408430742213812008-06-17T20:06:00.000-07:002008-06-17T20:10:39.297-07:00

1. What's your favorite color of lingerie? RED! It just looks soooo good against my dark skin. Makes me feel luminescent!2. Do you have a porn collection? Ummmm, no. Not really. I have some clips on my phone from my private starring role porn collection...lol. So I guess that's a yes.3. Do you have any fetishes? Hell yeah, don't we all? What are they? Well, I can't let you all in all my secrets!4

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-3340388920769182922008-06-15T06:05:00.000-07:002008-06-15T06:25:22.720-07:00

I have a boyfriend, who I have been dating for a few months. He is 26 and I'm 23. Once upon a time he use to be a 'player'. He hopped from chick to chick. He also use to trick money. He used to spend a ton of money on chicks. He'd take them shopping, out to dinners, on trips the works. Now that he's with me, he hardly spends any money. He hasn't bought me a gift at all. We go out and I feel like

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-66126665055069111462008-06-12T00:27:00.001-07:002008-06-12T11:10:06.927-07:00

I'm not sure what to do about my current boyfriend of one year. He is 36 years old with two children; a daughter 3 years old and a son 14 years old. He has also previously been married to his daughter's mother and shares joint custody of both his son and his daughter. I am 28 years old with no children and have never been married. My boyfriend is an awesome, dedicated, responsible father. He

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-48604729384249661412008-06-10T11:11:00.000-07:002008-06-12T11:25:13.639-07:00

1. If you're in love with your partner, does it make the sex better? Hell yeah. Sex without love is just basic, even animals do that. But making love is something on an elementally spiritual level that just connects you.2. What is the most expensive sex toy you've ever purchased? I got this wicked bullet with 10 speeds and vibes. It was absolutely delightful, the dude at the sex shop was like

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-61281913411766369972008-06-09T02:41:00.000-07:002008-06-09T02:42:28.217-07:00

Okay darlings, throw me a few questions for this week. It could be on anything, from relationships to friendships to family issues. Guys, feel free to chime in too. I only have one in my inbox pending, and so I love your input.Email me at vixentales at gmail.Hugs!

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-6806779701334473892008-06-05T01:21:00.000-07:002008-06-05T01:21:00.482-07:00

I am in the midst of a weird, dysfunctional relationship with a guy I met 2.5 years ago while he was in a long term relationship. We slowly became friends and then progressed to having an affair. After a year, I started pressuring him, and he kept telling me that it was too hard to end a long term relationship. I should have walked away then, but I didn’t. Instead, they broke up, and I thought

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-36587000343959497102008-06-04T00:48:00.000-07:002008-06-04T00:48:01.272-07:00

My new boyfriend and I have been dating for a couple days now. He came into the relationship by telling me his intentions very clearly so that if that wasn’t what I was looking for I could move one. Marriage and a family is what he's looking for now at this point of his life and so am I.Just some background: We both came out of long term relationships at the end of last year (his was longer than

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-13206195850389649562008-06-03T04:17:00.000-07:002008-06-03T04:17:00.444-07:00

1. Is there a TV show you HAVE to watch? If so, what is it? Yes, it's HOUSE. He's the best worst doctor ever. I wish most medical professionals were that 'real'.2. What is you favorite drink if you are going to drink more than one? A cranberry vodka or hard lemonade. Give me too of those and I'm loose. I'm a total lightweight.3. How long do you carry guilt around with you? Long enough to drive me

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-2413405056221881042008-06-01T02:32:00.000-07:002008-06-01T02:32:00.856-07:00

This post is dedicated to UKD, who wants to know what are the main things that a Bad Girl stands for and what she doesn't accept.As a Bad Girl, I acknowledge that I'm a woman that knows what I want out of life. I want to have the best of everything, my dreams and aspirations are merely stepping stones to the level of my greatness. I don't rely on anyone for support, everything I want and need is

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-21564692425222918802008-06-01T01:51:00.000-07:002008-06-02T01:58:54.312-07:00

Although I love Indy movies, this new Adventure collection seemed like a regurgitated DVD set with a few extra nibbles. There wasn't much in the extras that was worth paying close to $40 bucks for it, considering that the widescreen DVD set was much better and included the 2 hour documentary on making the film. The extras here just seemed like stuff left on the cutting room floor that George

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-43827389669009068492008-05-30T01:29:00.000-07:002008-05-30T01:52:39.046-07:00

I asked for questions...and boy did I get some questions. Alright, this is probably going to take me a while to get through all of them, so if your question is super urgent, please email that to me that it is so I can address it first. Here is the first one I got a couple of days ago.I'm a 21 year old college student who recently got out of a 2.5 year relationship. I'm out there enjoying the

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-4165601513487223682008-05-28T04:10:00.000-07:002008-05-28T04:11:46.778-07:00

I feel like I've hit a brick wall. I don't know what to write about anymore. I don't know if it's a seasonal thing, but I'm unable to even come up with a good topic. All I have are paragraphs trending off to nowhere.So, help a sista out. Send in your questions, from the heartbreaking to the mundane. Hopefully that will get some flow going.Email me at vixentales at gmail.Looking forward to hearing

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-9432744385884982382008-05-20T04:11:00.000-07:002008-05-23T04:17:14.775-07:00

1. How many credit cards do you own? Too many. LOL...I only have 3 credit cards and 2 store cards. Are they paid off? I'm working on paying off my SEARscard, already paid off my CapitalOne...working on that payoff plan.2. Can you be in love with someone you don't trust? It's possible, but I wouldn't want to be.3. Should prostitution be legal? Yeah. Then it wouldn't be such a dark pathway and

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-59091314285667101692008-05-19T08:41:00.000-07:002008-05-19T08:43:38.455-07:00

Okay, remember that whole 30 days of blog posts thingey...we'll being that I didn't write 30 posts before I had a really bad sickle cell attack last week, that idea went out the window. Anyway, I'm better, back and thankfully didn't go into the light.Now we return to your regularly scheduled programming.

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-43325574916987401462008-05-12T06:28:00.000-07:002008-05-12T06:28:03.261-07:00

I came across this blog post from Serena Williams a few months ago. Every woman that has ever been in love can totally relate to this.You just start dating a guy. He likes you, you like him. You guys want to spend every second together. When you are not with him you are talking to him on the phone. You have deep feelings for him. The feelings keep developing. They keep growing. You begin to think

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-66066742564617833782008-05-11T04:23:00.000-07:002008-05-11T04:23:00.668-07:00

NML wrote this really great post last year that I totally missed reading until recently. It's the modern day woman's guide to men, going from A all the way to Z. Several of these I've had the *pleasure* of meeting---as I'm sure many of us have. The worst combo is when they have several of these traits all in one. This is one of the most absolutely brilliant posts that NML has written and I just

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-68490340384424116852008-05-10T02:35:00.000-07:002008-05-10T02:35:01.249-07:00

Say your man's baby mama has a brood of several children, but only one for your man. Should you automatically extend yourself to all her other kids just because she's his baby mama? Should you invite her other children out when you take yours out? What is the etiquette around this anyway?This is one of those questions that I have a hard time answering because it's so subjective. There are alot of

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-26855994594690845892008-05-09T01:36:00.000-07:002008-05-09T01:57:29.256-07:00

We all know that the media is so slanted nowadays in their opinions of people, places and events. It's never quite hit home to me, how one person's lies can really jeopardize the very foundation of a blog until I zipped over to NML's blog and found out that the Daily Mail had sensationalized and twisted up alot of the facts about her blog. Read the full scoop on what happened here.Having known

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-1146808333293921832008-05-08T05:46:00.000-07:002008-05-08T05:46:00.397-07:00

I've had a few crushes in my day, and even felt the scourge of unrequited love. Ooooo, the quagmire that is unrequited love. It's such a deep one, a hole that you aren't sure how you got into and know that it's going to be hell to get out of.It might start innocuously, perhaps you two were just friends, or maybe he even had a girlfriend when you met him. But with a deft hand of Fate you start

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-48631928725687966122008-05-07T12:17:00.000-07:002008-05-07T12:17:00.636-07:00

Years ago I had a boyfriend that fit the classic role of every single romanticized version of 'boyfriend' that a girl could think of. He was attentive, brought gifts, showered praises and compliments, listened and let me orgasm first. I was so caught up in the new stages of the relationship that it took several months for me to figure out that something was 'off'.See my intuition was screaming

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-8468047692850427822008-05-06T03:59:00.000-07:002008-05-06T03:59:01.213-07:00

1. Pancakes or waffles? With or without toppings? Pancakes please. No toppings. I have simple tastes and all that whipped cream, berries and froufrou is just way too much going on for me!2. They say, "Way to a man's heart is through his stomach." What is the way to your heart? The way to my heart is through my head. I love getting mind fucked. There is something totally intriguing about a battle

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-80494228686818683102008-05-05T00:26:00.000-07:002008-05-05T00:57:23.130-07:00

Do you believe in love at first sight? Have you experienced it – and was it “the real thing” or lust?After last week's TMI, I got an email from a reader that was utterly surprised that I don't believe in love at first sight.This belief I had when I was in my teens, but somewhere between my first heartbreak and my last, I realistically came to the conclusion that there isn't such thing as love at

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-27699619318675538972008-05-04T03:43:00.000-07:002008-05-04T03:58:04.821-07:00

In honor of the month of this blog's birth, I'm going to do thirty days of daily posting. Thankfully Blogger now has a draft feature so I can pre-publish before going to work. If you would like a question answered, now is the time that you'll most probably get the quickest reply. Email me at vixentales at gmail with your questions.In addition this is my 500th post. It's like a uber big blog

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-90720428220667085662008-05-03T17:34:00.000-07:002008-05-03T17:34:01.222-07:00

Three years ago to this date, I had come from dinner with my girlfriends. We talked about alot of things that evening, but the main theme was dating, relationships and men. My sister called me telling me that her first date ever was on Saturday and she asked me a whole bunch of questions. I got home, started thinking and decided to put my thoughts, ideas and experiences about dating, men and

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-71543995710006459882008-04-29T23:45:00.000-07:002008-05-23T04:10:04.353-07:00

1. Early bird or night owl? Totally a night owl. I have to wake up tomorrow at 530 am to go to a new job training and I'm absolutely dreading anything remotely resembling getting up before the sun!2. Where was the first place you ever had sex? His place.3. On a scale of 1-10, how happy are you? (1 is lowest, 10 is highest), right now probably a 9. Vacations in tropical paradises will do wonders

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-62081402035841541242008-04-23T03:18:00.000-07:002008-04-23T03:33:14.978-07:00

How do you show your love and support for your significant other when you know he's doing something totally wrong, making a foolish decision or acting immature?My mom had this down to a science. She wouldn't involve herself in the scene, but moments later would take my dad in private and have a talk with him. This talk would be in a neutral tone, one that gave him a better insight to the fact the

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-70304778711832834242008-04-22T05:55:00.000-07:002008-04-22T05:55:01.219-07:00

Your boyfriend/girlfriend cheats on you with your best friend, who are you (more) mad at? Oooo, they are both going down. I would be more mad at my boyfriend though since that is who I have a committment with. But my best friend totally gets demoted (if not cut).Is there something someone could say to you that would cross a boundary of not being able to take

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-46397220431359623622008-04-20T10:07:00.000-07:002008-04-20T10:07:00.182-07:00

Hello darlings,I'm at the airport this very second heading to Hawaii for the week. Beautiful hot sun! Yes, yes, yes!!! I'm so excited, I've never been to Hawaii before. We are going to be in Kona and Kailua. Sipping on kahlua in kailua, hahaha.I'm using the new blogger to pre-publish a few posts before I leave so there will be updates, but not as much as you would like. I'll be back with tons of

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-57083508378396514972008-04-17T16:13:00.000-07:002008-04-17T16:13:00.773-07:00

It's stories like this that make my eyes water and my head feel like it's about to blow up.Here's my story, I'm an African single mother 27 yrs,my son is 7 yrs old. I have a pretty decent lifestyle; running my own event management business. I've been dating a 38yr old African gentleman (he's married to a white woman) race is only being emphasized because part of my question lies in it. We've

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-81895342303179302522008-04-15T17:47:00.000-07:002008-04-15T18:06:42.940-07:00

1. Did you have to pay or did you get money back? Both. I paid federal and got back state. I really HATE doing taxes.2. What was your biggest financial mistake? Probably liquidating my 401K in 2005. I had planned to go to Australia with it. But instead, I ended up in Cali, where I blew it all. I didn't do anything 'tangible' with the money, I just spent it all on shopping and going out. It was

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-76944215893430691202008-04-14T15:47:00.000-07:002008-04-15T17:29:14.539-07:00

I got a question from on of my matchmaking readers recently that had set up her coworker with her boyfriend's best friend. The summary is that the 'new' relationship isn't going that well, the best friend and coworker are in a weird funk and he's basically emotionally unavailable while she's acting all desperate pouring attention, money and time his way even though he's showing her that he's not

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-3488054766945629242008-04-12T22:43:00.000-07:002008-04-12T22:48:55.558-07:00

Over at Baggage Reclaim, NML and the gang are serving up a thought provoking series called "30 Days of Drama Reduction". I suggest you head over there to read and learn useful tips in staying away from the Mr. Unavailable and all the drama that he brings.Cheekie wrote a great article the other day that struck a few chords with me. Here is an excerpt.We only place blame when we cannot deal with or

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-89419555322639837842008-04-07T16:08:00.002-07:002008-04-08T12:58:59.054-07:00

Here's a letter I got from one my my readers the other day. Ok, I have been dating this guy for over a year now and our relationship has not progressed to anything serious. When we first started dating I continuously said to him that I didn't want a relationship etc. (Partly because that was how I was feeling at the time and because he was older and of another nationality than me. (I have always

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-79266463928567838122008-04-03T03:53:00.000-07:002008-04-07T16:30:42.112-07:00

There is a new website that I just stumbled upon that people can ask questions anonymously on relationships, post them on the internet and get them answered by pretty much anyone and everyone. It's an open forum community that still maintains your privacy. I've found that people are more comfortable sharing their burning questions online than anywhere else.It's called Baffld.com, and it's a new

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-33745486892396840502008-04-02T16:47:00.000-07:002008-04-07T17:07:32.989-07:00

Bzzzz!In animation, this movie follows the usual plot, seeing life through the eyes of the 'animal' or insect that it's about. It does start off like a remake of the Antz, Happy Feet, Ratatouille family but branches off early on into a distinct brand of blending too much in a plot until the story overwhelms the whole movie. For starters, if you know anything about bees and insects and plants in

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-22250621137351891262008-04-01T15:56:00.000-07:002008-04-07T16:07:29.783-07:00

1. How are your March Madness picks doing? or What is your favorite event? Ummm, you must not have gotten the memo---I'm a girly girl. Girly girls like me don't do sports. I don't even know what March Madness is.2. What is the best April Fool's joke - EVER? One of my coworkers filled a urine specimen cup with apple juice, then took it to the nurses station and stated that back in the old days,

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-76378416909801484352008-03-28T03:39:00.000-07:002008-03-29T04:19:39.509-07:00

One of my male readers sent me a question that details his feelings for a fabulous, amazing girl that he's totally growing feelings for. Everything in their relationship is quite wonderful, they are in sync and she's totally great. The only pitfall so far is that he has feelings of inadequacy and insecurity. He's afraid that he will wake up one day and she'll no longer be into him.How do you tell

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-33093113761092778342008-03-25T07:35:00.000-07:002008-03-25T07:44:14.340-07:00

This seems to be the only theme I'm staying consistent. Norio is under the weather with the flu so I'm kinda blue.1. Stubble... good or bad? Stubble is so sexy! Unless it's again my pussy walls. Then it's like dayum---razor please! Beard burn sucks! How often do you shave? Privates weekly. Legs...annually. What can I say, I have some really great legs!2. If someone shoves you up against a wall

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-3906083916319786682008-03-24T07:06:00.000-07:002008-03-25T07:33:56.260-07:00

I was listening to Danity Kane's new single and the words brought to mind something that all women---and everyone that has ever had a crush or been in a relationship can relate to. Love is beautiful, but it's also a precarious line between heartbreak and bliss. The baggage and wounds we carry around, from our relationships with our father all the way to the last ex that just broke our heart have

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-46315579182756260852008-03-20T00:21:00.000-07:002008-03-19T23:24:36.827-07:00

My very cool and very talented girlfriend in London just did this song for O! Show some love for a bad girl doing it big! Woo Hoo! I'm so proud of her!

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-64004106583265632312008-03-19T03:27:00.001-07:002008-03-19T03:49:22.072-07:00

This book was definitely one for the guys. And by guys I mean the type of guys that I wouldn't date. A specific group of guys that see the world through sports, don't know a thing about grocery shopping, don't read books, and think going to Las Vegas qualifies as visiting a Wonder of the World. The stance of women is stereo-typical as well, at times even bordering on the archaic principles of

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-65607232531723427782008-03-18T04:47:00.000-07:002008-03-19T04:52:59.783-07:00

This TMI isn't really a good one for me but I'll do it anyway.1. In the midst of a hangover have you ever promised to "never drink again?" I've only had 1 hangover. And yes, I did promise that. It was on my 21st birthday. I've never gotten sloshingly drunk ever since. 2. What is the stupidest thing you have ever done while drinking (or not if it is really stupid) but thought it seemed like a good

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-9140766330467823872008-03-17T04:30:00.000-07:002008-03-18T04:31:33.113-07:00

One of the things on my mind lately is the ridiculously stupid double standard that us women are still dealing with in the 21st century. We've managed to cross such controversial issues like the right to vote, equality in the workplace and freedom of choice, however there are still huge hurdles to be crossed.Take for instance the whole slut mentality. Men that sleep around and have had over 60

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-83060717368701769972008-03-16T04:00:00.000-07:002008-03-19T04:15:54.070-07:00

When you think about Tantra, the first thing that leaps to my mind is vivid images of the Kama Sutra. However this book has shown me that there is such a deep and undeveloped essence to one's sexuality, and that the boundaries that the Western world has placed on us is only existing in our minds. Sexuality isn't bad, it isn't a sin, it isn't forbidden. It's beautiful.With all kinds of wonderful

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-52669524731776892202008-03-11T23:13:00.000-07:002008-03-11T23:21:11.430-07:00

Is sex hotter for you when it's forbidden? Some freaky stuff is totally hot! However, there are some things that leave alot to be desired.Are casual sexual encounters fulfilling to you? Hell no! Do you need an emotional commitment from your partner for sex to be fulfilling? Yes, I do need an emotional connection. Sex is so much better when you are connected in

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-49544147424512436182008-03-06T02:06:00.000-08:002008-03-07T02:21:35.065-08:00

Okay, so I've been totally bad. In fact very bad with posting. I used to be a posting queen...I wonder what happened to me? I think one of the things was starting my other blog, that I can write on and bitch about all day long. Taking that angle, I should just bitch about hella ish on here.For example, why do we stress, scheme and worry about getting a boyfriend, but then when we do get one, we

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12639280.post-76402543260311784102008-03-04T02:00:00.000-08:002008-03-19T04:52:59.784-07:00

1. Under what conditions would you kiss a stranger? Ummm, to save a life? Like CPR or something.2. Who was the last person you sent a text message to? My kid sister. If you’ve never sent someone a text message, is there some reason? I never used to text, I was sooo cheap! Until I got my texting plan free, now I'm a text-a-holic.3. When was the last time you deliberately surprised someone? I took

Vixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14064520755523082756noreply@blogger.com1